Building positive relationships with students should be a top priority for every K–12 teacher. Strong teacher-student relationships create a nurturing classroom environment, fostering trust, respect, and open communication, which can motivate students and lead to academic success. While it takes time to develop these meaningful connections, the rewards are well worth the effort.

The Importance of Positive Student-Teacher Relationships

Positive student-teacher relationships are vital for cultivating a classroom where students feel valued and supported. When students know their teachers truly care about them, their behavior often improves, their motivation increases, and their academic achievement soars.

Beyond academics, strong teacher-student relationships help students develop social and emotional skills. Teachers also benefit from these connections by creating a more harmonious and enjoyable teaching experience. Positive interactions between students and teachers form the foundation of a supportive learning community—one where everyone thrives. 

9 Tips to Build Positive Relationships with Students

Whether you're a veteran teacher or just starting as a student teacher, incorporating these practical tips into your teaching routine can help create stronger bonds with your students.

1. Conduct Morning Meetings

Morning meetings present the perfect opportunity to check in with students and set the tone for the day. Dedicate the first 10 to 15 minutes of class to addressing how students are feeling, sharing updates, or playing short team-building activities. This daily interaction fosters strong relationships and creates a sense of belonging, helping you better understand your students’ perspectives and needs. 

2. Send Out ‘Get to Know You’ Surveys

At the start of the school year (or semester), hand out surveys where students can share information about themselves—such as their favorite activities, goals, and challenges. This shows students you’re genuinely interested in them as individuals. Use this information to tailor interactions and lessons so that students feel seen, understood, and valued.

Surveys like this can also open doors for conversations. When you ask students about their creative projects or remember their favorite sports teams, it shows that you care–small gestures like this go a long way in building trust.

3. Believe All Students Can Succeed 

A positive mindset matters. When teachers express belief in every student’s ability to succeed, it can transform how students view themselves. This belief builds confidence, inspires effort, and supports a growth mindset.

Using affirming language such as "I believe in your potential" or "You’ve got this" signals to your students that you’re in their corner. Even when students struggle, your encouragement can push them to persevere and build resilience.

4. Say Hello and Goodbye Every Day

A simple "hello" can make all the difference. Greet your students at the door with a smile and personalized acknowledgment, like calling them by name. This creates a welcoming start to class and sets a positive tone for interaction. 

Similarly, saying goodbye as students leave reinforces a culture of care. These quick yet meaningful exchanges can help strengthen connections one small moment at a time.

5. Allow Students to Have Choices

Providing choices, whether in classroom activities or assignments, gives students a sense of autonomy and control over their learning experience. For example, you can allow a student to pick between project topics or decide how the student wants to present their work.

When students participate in decision-making, they feel empowered and respected, promoting stronger teacher-student partnerships. 

6. Understand That Mistakes Happen

We all make mistakes—students included. When a student makes a poor decision or misbehaves, respond with empathy rather than frustration. Use these moments as learning opportunities to practice problem-solving and accountability.

By creating a safe space where students don’t fear judgment, you’ll encourage more honest communication and show that their growth matters more than their missteps.

7. Laugh with Students 

Laughter is a universal connector that can bring teachers and students closer together. Share a joke, enjoy light-hearted moments in class, or laugh together at funny stories. A sense of humor fosters a fun and relaxed classroom atmosphere where students feel comfortable being themselves.

Don’t be afraid to be human—your authentic self will resonate with your students and make you more relatable as a teacher.

8. Call Home for Good Behavior

We often contact parents when there’s a problem, but calling home for positive behavior can be even more impactful. A quick call to celebrate a student’s achievements or kindness can strengthen your relationship with the student and their family. 

Knowing that their efforts are noticed and praised builds student confidence while reinforcing positive behavior.

9. Let Your Students Get to Know You Too

Relationships are a two-way street. Share appropriate personal stories and interests that allow your students to connect with you as a person, not just as their teacher. Talk about a hobby you enjoy or a favorite childhood book—personal touches make you more relatable and approachable.

When students feel like they know you on a deeper level, they’re more likely to trust and engage with you. 

Positive Student-Teacher Relationships Matter

Establishing positive relationships with students doesn’t happen overnight—it takes patience, intentionality, and time. However, the effort you invest will pay off in countless ways, including creating a welcoming classroom environment, fostering better student behavior, and improving students’ academic achievement.

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